My Book Club’s Favorites

My book club's holiday partyThis year I have two books lists to tell you about!

#1. My Top Ten*

#2. My Book Club’s Favorites

MY TOP TEN

I keep track of everything I read on this page and usually offer a few sentences with my thoughts on the book. I read 50 books this year and may even squeeze in one more before December 31st. People often ask how I have time to read. I have three answers for you: 1. No TV in the bedroom. 2. No iPhone or laptop in the bedroom. 3. I stay up too late.

Here they are! (In no order)

When It Happens to You: A Novel in Stories by Molly Ringwald

This collection was really good. I loved that the stories were linked, making them come together somewhat like a novel. I’m not going to tell you that this is the most uplifting group of stories, but I appreciated Ringwald’s depth of observation about the way people interact and what goes into the choices people make. It was just a really good read.

This Is the Story of a Happy Marriage by Ann Patchett

Patchett is definitely a writer’s writer. I love this book of essays, and I was someone in my book club picked it for our group. I have a feeling that the rest of the group could be less excited about it as the first few essays focus on Patchett’s writing career. The other essays delve more into relationships, however, and I think that many would relate. I’ve always loved her clean, spare writing with just enough detail to bring you into the scene or her thought-process without boring me at all.

The Kitchen House: A Novel by Kathleen Grissom (audio)

I loved everything about this book, and it made me an audio fan.

Eleanor & Park by Rainbow Rowell

Really loved this young adult novel. Full review is at Great New Books. Quick review: sweet, heartbreaking, funny, and uplifting. Totally fun 80s references.

Table in the Darkness: A Healing Journey Through an Eating Disorder by Lee Wolfe Blum

Powerful, raw memoir from Minneapolis writer, Lee Wolfe Blum, about her recovery from an eating disorder that almost killed her in her 20s. This is a survival story.

Orphan Train: A Novel by Christina Baker Kline (audio)

I loved this story so much that I would consider reading it even though I already heard the entire audio version.

Lots of Candles, Plenty of Cake by Anna Quindlen (audio and read it)

Loved every word. I listened to it, too. I’m now obsessed with Anna Quindlen. Yes, I realize I’m quite late to the game.

The Rosie Project by Gramae Simsion

I really loved this one! From the book description: “The art of love is never a science: Meet Don Tillman, a brilliant yet socially inept professor of genetics, who’s decided it’s time he found a wife. In the orderly, evidence-based manner with which Don approaches all things, he designs the Wife Project to find his perfect partner: a sixteen-page, scientifically valid survey to filter out the drinkers, the smokers, the late arrivers. ”

Station Eleven by Emily St. John Mandel

Cannot say enough good things. I can’t even describe the plot because so much happens and it sounds like this major action book, and yet it’s not. It’s deep and winding and so well done. There are several characters to follow in this story after a terrible flu wipes out 99% of the world’s population. In so many “post-civilization” type novels the landscape of the world is wiped out, too. But in this case, all the buildings are standing and all the structures are in place, but there are few people and no governments to keep things like gas lines pumping or even TV stations running. How the bands of survivors make their way to a new life is fascinating to watch (read).

Small Victories: Spotting Improbable Moments of Grace by Anne Lamott

Lamott fans will be happy with the typical wisdom and candor in this one.

MY BOOK CLUB’S FAVORITE READS 

The members of my book clubs are of all different ages and backgrounds, and we don’t all like the same types of books. The following list represents the books we each brought up as favorites during our holiday party. (Note the photo above with the fabulous table of treats our newest member Stacy provided as our party hostess.)

The books our my book club’s list do not necessarily represent the books we read in 2014 as a group, though next year I will keep track of that because it would fun to see it all on one list at the end of the year.

Steve Jobs by Walter Isaacson

Death Comes to Pemberley by P.D. James

Longbourn by Jo Baker

Songs of Willow Frost by Jamie Ford 

Big Little Lies by Liane Moriarty

All the Light We Cannot See by Anthony Doerr

Headmaster’s Wife by Thomas Christopher Greene

Us: a Novel by David Nicholls

An Innocent Abroad: Life-Changing Trips from 35 Great Writers by John Berendt (and others)

Yes, Chef by Marcus Samuelsson

The Circle by David Eggers

Driftless by David Rhodes

The Rosie Project by Graeme Simsion

The Book of Unknown Americans by Christina Henriquez

Mambo in Chinatown by Jean Kwok

Delicious by Ruth Reichl

MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL WHO CELEBRATE! 

*Links lead to Amazon, for which I am an affiliate. It means that for every person who orders a book I recommend I may earn something like 5 cents. Thanks! 😉

 

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Nina Badzin hosts the podcast Dear Nina: Conversations About Friendship. She's been writing about friendship since 2014, co-leads the writing groups at ModernWell in Minneapolis, and reviews 30+ books a year on her website.

25 Responses

    1. I listened to that one and really liked it. It would be in my two 20, but not not 10. I think I would have liked it better as a regular book, not audio. There was only one narrator and it was hard to keep track of the changes in voice. I know it was on everyone else’s top 10 list though!

  1. You’ve definitely got me interested in reading Station Eleven, even though dystopian novels usually keep me awake at night. 🙂 This one looks like it will be worth the sleepless night.

    I recently listened to a history podcast about the real orphan trains. Something I’d had no prior knowledge about. The podcast only scratched the surface though and now I’d like to read more.
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  2. What a great list! I am in awe of your reading capability but I realize what is hindering me, and it’s not a TV since I don’t have one in my bedroom, but my phone and computer. Some nights I write, but then there’s the whole getting lost online thing. As a former avid reader (former meaning before kids, sigh) I am making a resolution to read more this year, much much more and luckily I have a jumpstart on my list thanks to yours and the Great New Books blog 🙂

    I love that you enjoyed Molly Ringwald’s stories, I think she’s such an intriguing person (I’ve read interviews) and I’m pleased to hear her writing doesn’t disappoint.
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    1. I used to be a late night writer until my husband got (rightfully) tired of me ignoring him every night and me being a zombie all day. In 2014 I started getting up at 5AM five days a week. It was a HUGE adjustment but totally worth it. Now I’m completely itchy when (like in weeks like this one) I can’t get up and work because we’re away and off our regular schedule. It was the best change I ever made. I still stay up too late reading, but now “too late” is like 11PM as opposed to 2AM. 🙂

  3. I am checking my Goodreads now to make sure I have added the Ringwald book to my “To Read” list.. definitely adding the eating disorder one. I’ve always loved stories of immigration, addiction, and eating disorders (and I’m not sure if all those belong in the same sentence but in my mind, they go together- maybe b/c they share a similar hero’s journey?). I loved Lots of Candles Plenty of Cake… My husband was reading me The Rosie Project during the end of my pregnancy when I was too uncomfortable to even find a way to read in bed and that was so much fun, especially because he’s a little socially inept himself (which is definitely something I would and have said to his face, so I’m not talking behind his back), and we laughed so hard. I am sad because our Nook died before we finished it. I also loved Big Little Lies. Mambo in Chinatown… I gave it two or three chapters but I couldn’t continue. I felt like the characters lacked any depth, I couldn’t understand their motivations and I just wasn’t interested. I’m definitely adding Station Eleven to my list, everyone is talking about it.
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    1. Your husband is officially the best husband EVER. And such an interesting combination of themes that you like. I think they are somewhat related. Cool that you picked that up!

  4. Thanks for this great list Nina! I’m also a big Anna Quindlen fan and loved Orphan Train! Looking forward to checking out some of your other suggestions in the new year!

  5. I adore end of year book lists, and these two have MANY I haven’t ever heard of, let alone read, which is great! So many to choose from. I still haven’t read Station Eleven, but must in 2015!

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