
#213 – Friendship “Flings,” Uneven Effort, and Being Stuck in the Middle
Dr. Miriam Kirmayer on who reaches out, who pulls away, and what to make of it. Dr. Miriam Kirmayer is back on Dear Nina, and

Dr. Miriam Kirmayer on who reaches out, who pulls away, and what to make of it. Dr. Miriam Kirmayer is back on Dear Nina, and

When good intentions aren’t enough in a friendship What happens when you genuinely care about friends, but your behavior isn’t showing it? That’s the question

Dr. Marisa G. Franco on self-worth, rejection, reassurance, and the stories we carry into our friendships. Dr. Marisa G. Franco is back on Dear Nina!

Why human connection requires friction, empathy, and accountability. I have real concerns about AI, and one of my biggest is what happens when we start

How to encourage connection and new friendships without forcing it. I’ve spoken before on Dear Nina about neurodiversity and friendship with several fantastic guests, but

Harlan Cohen on friendship, social courage, and finding places where you belong. Finding friendship—at any stage of life—requires the risk of hearing “no.” And that
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