Reconnecting With an Ex-Friend

 

Reconnection is Possible in Friendship

This is the forgiveness episode of Dear Nina–a candid conversation with one of my best friends, Rebecca Kotok, who for a while in our twenties was my ex-best friend. Even hearing her name back in the day put a pit in my stomach and made me ashamed, angry, regretful, and sad because ultimately, I really missed her.

And that’s the point of this episode. Rebecca and I managed to forgive each other. But the truth is– because we were so happy to finally be reconnected once an olive branch had been extended–we never spent much time diving into what had happened in the first place.

The episode you’re about to hear with Rebecca is one of the most listened to Dear Nina episodes of all time. So sit back, relax and remain optimistic that a friendship can go very wrong and then get very right when the power of forgiveness takes hold.

And for more content about friendship–all the good, the bad, and everything in between–there’s lots more on Substack!

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Find episode #34 anywhere you listen to podcasts!

 

Find the rest of the show notes here from when the episode first aired.

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Nina Badzin hosts the podcast Dear Nina: Conversations About Friendship. She's been writing about friendship since 2014, co-leads the writing groups at ModernWell in Minneapolis, and reviews 30+ books a year on her website.

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Hi, I'm Nina

HI, I’M NINA BADZIN. I’m a writer fascinated by the dynamics of friendship, and I’ve been answering anonymous advice questions on the topic since 2014. I now also answer them on my podcast, Dear Nina! I’m a creative writing instructor at ModernWell in Minneapolis, a freelance writer and editor, and an avid reader who reviews 50 books a year. Welcome to my site! 

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Hi, I'm Nina

HI, I’M NINA BADZIN. I’m a writer fascinated by the dynamics of friendship, and I’ve been answering anonymous advice questions on the topic since 2014. I now also answer them on my podcast, Dear Nina! I’m a creative writing instructor at ModernWell in Minneapolis, a freelance writer and editor, and an avid reader who reviews 50 books a year. Welcome to my site! 

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